Relationships

Why We Must Forgive

I was walking through a parking lot today, and I saw a sign that read, "If reason is on your side, show forgiveness. If justice is on your side, show humility." At first, it rattled me considering the state of anger wherein I've traveled increasingly since the Trayvon Martin trial,…

Wide Awake Part I

I went to sleep last night somewhat at peace with the fact that I I don't live in fear (here) of someone taking my child's life just because their hue makes them look "threatening." But, I woke up to the sobering reality that I would have that very valid fear…

Thinking Ahead

January 20, 2014Singapore seems like that ambitious overzealous younger sibling desperately trying to crawl out of the shadows of its predecessors. It strives to excel in all areas, especially education. In terms of academics, just from my brief research and observations, Singapore far excels America in mathematics, reading (but, not…

You Can Reach Me By….

 It was Girl's Night, the first of the new year. Most of us have made it back from our holiday travels, and we were reuniting at a friend's house to meet her visiting mom, who could probably successfully pursue a career in standup right now. There was lots of laughter, animated…

The Break

The BreakSunday December 1, 2013 and Thursday January 9, 2014It felt like water breaking.<Hi, my name is Talitha, and I can be dramatic.>Though premature, they say it happens around three months, then again at six, this labor was intensive and the birth was full weight. I cried, wept until I…

The Help(er) Part III

Ok, so we’re getting a helper/maid, but that’ll be the last time I refer to her as such. My foreign domestic worker (FDW), which is the legal title of the position, will be called “Mae” for the purpose of this blog. It’s been two whole months now and so much has…